overcast, coolish

Why is it that sometimes it like that we, us anyone are like a designated shit target? In the last 40 days, my youngest son was killed, my stepson's good friend died and yesterday our son-in -laws brother died in a boating accident. It's not that I'm feeling sorry for myself, I'm angry and sad, I feel great sorrow for all the others that have been hurt and devastated by these horrible events.
All men in their prime, all good men, all tragically. No one can possibly claim to see any reason for these deaths. There will be some who will say the reasons will be revealed yattity yadda etc, etc. In addition other good men were terribly injured in the accident in which my son died and their lives and those of their loved ones have been changed forever as has ours.
People should not die so that some well meaning knothead can make sage remarks and recommendations that will probably change nothing and for sure won't change what has happened.
We will head back home tomorrow morning as we cannot get away today.
So it will be a couple days before more story for those of you who follow it.